I have been on this penpal site for several years now, and the first thing I noticed from the beginning of my first ad there is that a lot of the people don't want, people they feel will ask them for charitable donation, to e'mail or to write them. Its a whole lot of people who do this. It was so much and so sad that I began by answering all of the unwanteds that others would not. Actually, there were a great amount of the people who did want charity in some form or way. However, there were a few people who did wanna just be penpals, did just wanna be e'mail pals, and I was glad that I had went to find out for myself instead of just reacting to others peoples ads who were in some way prejudiced. I just wanna know is it so terribly wrong for people to ask for charity from others.