Its very hard when its your own child you have to deal with as one who is ungreatful to you no matter that you have given your all for that child. You made them your life and never once thought of your own pleasure. Then when the child grows up and leaves home--sometimes a parent will fight to keep the child a child, like I foolishly did--and then you give in to someday being totally left alone by the rest of your children as well. So if you do decide to begin finding things you enjoy that make you feel good now for a change since your children only think of themselves at this time, and then you are struck with having to take your grandchildren in and raise them, and you get no appreciation for it and no thanks at all, you only get the disrespect of a grown child who doesn't care about you the parent or even the babies shes had even over all of your warnings when she was still single and totally free. Anyway, it hurts like hell when you see a grandchild begging your own child to take him with her, because he wants his mommy. And all shes thinking about is herself and getting some peace away from the child that she never sees anyway, hardly. It hard to see the child then dealing with the fact that his mom just ain't going to take him and then he begans to call his grandparents mom and dad. I'm not healthy enough to watch the babies, but I am patient enough for them, my daughter is healthy enough, but shes not patient enough. And the main sad fact is shes never liked being at home, staying with us and doesn't even like us, thinks we're trashy. But yet she can leave her babies with us. Shes lived next door to us for the last several months and the babies still haven't hardly seen her any. She stays gone camping 24/7 almost. She really loves her freedom, but she wasn't careing about her freedom any when she was treating me like I didn't know what I was talking about when I was trying to get her to not have sex when she was a teenager, when I was telling her to enjoy her freedom while she still could. She was the one who loved to play with other friends babies and todlers and she wanted a baby more than anything, THEN!!! Boy how much that eats me up inside even when she shrugges her shoulders at me and says I don't care.