I rarely need to lash out at anyone, myself, its when the other person is messing with my daughters, or my grandbabies, in a way that causes them to be scared, then I will be all over that person. It rarely happens anymore, but a few times when my daughters were younger. Its happened often over my grandbabies with their parents who wont take care of the babies the way I think the babies ought to be taken care of. My oldest daughter doesn't even smile at me anymore and we rarely have anything good to say to each other. I hate being angry at her and seeing her angry face at me, but my grandbabies can't defend themselves.